Gosh! The past few days, I had been listening to so many sad stories. And as much as I wanna be of some help, I don't have any means to do anything. I guess I really failed as a close friend. :(
Why are those typical Singaporean ajs so vicious?? .. I have no words to describe.
It has been several months after my buddy's break-up. My buddy has always been the strongest person on earth. And just now, I got a distress call from him. He was out clubbing and he met several of his friends. They actually told him everything about the secret promiscuous life that his ex has. I totally understand his plight, because I was also a victim myself in an almost similar situation. Seeing him suddenly so depressed, apart of me really wanna share his pain. Yes, I love my buddy more than anything. But how am I going to share his pain?? Someone please teach me. :S
Here's the whole story. He had an almost 2-years relationship. Throughout the 2 years, my buddy was just like a caged bird. He was forced to stop contacting ALL his aj friends because he ex did not like it. Now I know why. His ex was afraid that his friends would tell my buddy about his secret promiscuous life. He had to quit fridae, livejournal, friendster, and even MSN. And you know, he had to REPORT every single movement and every single conversation he had when he went out with any of his friends. Yet, on and off, some of his frens still tried to warn him about his ex. But as you know, LOVE IS BLIND. My buddy chose to believe the explanations given by his ex. Even though my buddy had caught his ex lying so many times, he gave him the benefit of the doubt. And now they had broken up, of coz all his friends went all out tell him what they discovered/the truth. And I know some of his friends personally, they are really extremely concerned about his well-being. No other ill intentions. Imagine that you were kept in the dark for 2 whole years, while your boyfriend goes around having ONS with total strangers from public toilets/pools/clubs. And mind you, some of those strangers were pretty disgusting. Tell me about horniess. Your ex should have better taste than that. And you know what? My buddy sticked by his ex through the ups and downs. When his ex was at the worst point of his life when he quit SQ and became jobless for 1++ years, my buddy helped him pull through the deepest slums. My buddy taught him all the aspects of life, how to be savvy, how to be realistic, secretly help him secure jobs, help him save $$$, help him soo many soo many things. I can name a zillion things. And what he gets in return? Total betrayal. All the 2-years were merely made up of lies that his ex told him. Life is never fair. The evil ones always get away scot-free. It has even affected his studies, because his ex had the cheek to break up with him just a day before his exams. And mind you, it did not just happen once.
Let me analyse for you.
1. Your ex sucks ass.
2. He's a useless piece of shit.
3. He's literally broke and in HUGE debts.
4. He has a fucking bottom and has a very ugly/small dick. <- That's what I heard from my all frens.
5. He doesn’t even have a bod!
6. He's bad in bed. <- He may fake this coz he likes to have ONS in public toilets/pools. And when he's still an air steward, you jolly well know what promiscuous things he did secretly overseas.
7. He's so uneducated <- He even lied to my buddy about his education level.
8. He tells lies all the time. <- How many times have you caught him lying?? Countless.
9. He is a failed part-time model who can never make it in Singapore. You think a chinese can compete with some eurasian fellow? Dream on.
10. He always lives beyond his financial means.
11. Ever wonder why ALL his exes dump him?? They told me the reasons. But you don't believe me!
My verdict to my buddy:
1. Sorry to say that, but you have yourself to blame.
2. Within the first few months in the relationship, HOW MANY OF US told you dump him??
3. When you caught him lying the first time, why did you wanna be in denial and believe what he said??
4. On and off, we told you all we know. Why didn't you listen to us??
5. You heard so many stories about his overseas crap, why did you choose to ignore them??
6. When you found out about his dubious accounts (unaccounted snowball debts), why didn't you suspect anything??
7. When you demanded explanation, what did he tell you? People are jealous of his good looks, so they wanna frame him. Hey! Wake up your idea. Who is he in the first place? Paris Hilton? Brad Pitt? I'm definitely better than him, but what rumours have you heard about me after I was in the scene for so many years? NONE!
Fuck him man. If I were you, I would really just leave him to rot to death in the very beginning when he was jobless. Help is only given to people who are worth helping. I would be the first to celebrate his downfall. And trust me, have faith in God. God will always be on your side because God is love, and he loves you very much. The only thing which you really listened to me is that you have shielded almost 50% of your life from your ex. I told you before right?? Don't even trust him 50%! It's a good thing that he don't know so many things about you. :)
I will not name names. Guess some of you will now this guy. Trust me, the only thing his ex has .. are just good looks (which I personally disagree) and a glib tongue (i.e. smooth talker). He will never make a good boyfriend, just worthly for a quick fuck. If you guys think I'm bias and I'm bitching about someone, think again. The accounts were also given by several of our common friends (some totally unrelated to each other). Rumours will never start by itself. Mind you, it is not just 1 miserable rumour! There are plentiful. And look! I think his ex is now happily attached (barely less than 1-2 months). My buddy is still trying to get over the whole thing. So who love who? You guys judge yourselves.
Oh yah, just in case you dunno, your ex is now back with his old-time friend which he cursed and swear about him when he was with you. You told me he hated him to the core right?? Tell me about being a 2-headed snake. Open your eyes wide please.
To my buddy:
OK! First, you are the one who broke up with him because you caught him lying about his dunno-wat-drinking thing. And as you are seeking a long-term relationship, do you think it is worth getting so upset over this guy? It has been months!! Is he worth it in the first place? NO! Will this guy build a future with you? NO! Why? Because he is not incapable of doing anything, and he will just waste his life away. To me, he's a useless piece of shit. I'm in every position to judge. You have a charmed life, and you deserve someone better. Don't forget about Jasper! He is a billion times better. I know he loves you alot though he is not here physically. And remember that all of us love you. Yes, don't forget about our group of friends in Taiwan. We are always behind you. Just swallow the whole thing and move on. Fuck that guy. I will make sure you get over this whole thing. This is my promise to you.
I want to see you smile when I see you again. Our 1-month Taiwan trip will be the next best thing ever. Cheer up. I know you will be alright after your fucked up alcohol wears off.
Love always,
Marc
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